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Are you having trouble coming up with scenes to try in your BDSM relationship? Do you feel silly reenacting movies or porn or just draw a blank when asked for suggestions? You have come to the right place

In "The BDSM Playbook," we're going to review 51 scenes that you can try and adapt to your own lifestyle and routine. They are separated into categories of Beginners (sexual and nonsexual), Earning Trust, and Extreme Power Plays. These scenes will teach you characters, behaviors and thinking patterns that will help you forget yourself and start...

Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn't just a "good idea" when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential.

"Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life.

You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic decor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear.

Fortunately, you don't have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun.

Most of the things you need to give your submissive the spanking of a lifetime, a punishment to fit the crime, or just an...

Fellatio, the art (trust me, it's an art) of oral sex, is like playing an instrument. Mouth, hands, motion and emotion all mix together at the same time - and the beautiful music of your lover's satisfaction is heard.

Anyone can pick up an instrument and make noise, but to really play it takes knowledge, skill, and practice, practice, practice. Oral sex isn't just a gift you give to him. It's a gift you share together.

"Blow By Blow" will guide you, step by step, to the explosive orals that will "blow" his mind away. Once you start following these...

Submission can be described by a lot of words but "easy" isn't one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you.

The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another....

You've been thinking about her all day. Over and over in your mind you've been imagining the two of you making love tonight. You don't just want the evening to be a good experience. It needs to be a great experience for both of you. Searching your thoughts for the best wine to select or the right words to say, it dawns on you that the way to make the night memorable for you both is to ensure it ends with her having an explosive orgasm that rocks her world and shows you are an attentive and amazing lover. If that's the case, this book is for you.

Mysterious,...

There are a number of reasons a woman may choose online submission. It's a good way to ease into the community by making friends and observing other people at a safe distance. Creating an online persona allows women to keep their real names and identifiers private. This not only helps maintain physical safety but also gives her the freedom to talk about sexual fantasies and naughty ideas without fearing judgment from other people or consequences on the job.

Online submission also allows for a sexual experience rooted in the world of fantasy. A woman can take on any role or persona she...

BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.

As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you.

This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you...

The world is full of advice on how to charge, or re-charge, our sexual relationships, but nothing adds more of a jolt to a couple than when they say those three lovely words:

"Let's have anal."

Anal sex is a sensual and high-powered addition to your sexual repertoire. This form of sexuality is one of the most intimate personal connections a couple can have. Considered taboo by some modern societies, it is often elusive, and misunderstood.

"Better Anal Sex" is a guide that helps demystify the process and provide some history, biology and tips on...

Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity.

Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are distinct roles and categories that developed to help women define their preferences and find like-minded people and...

Has your sex life become dull and repetitive?

Whether you are a new couple, or have been married for 50 years, it can be difficult to maintain the level of fun and arousal in the bedroom that you would like. Too often, we approach sex as a serious matter, forgetting that it can be a wonderfully creative experience. We let the routine of our daily lives intrude upon the intimate time that we spend with our partner.

If we aren't careful, sex can turn into a boring routine.

Fortunately, there is no need to engage in S&M or head to a swingers club...

Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don't know how to get started?

The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn't dirty. There's nothing shameful or wrong about it.

Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that's completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it's...

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship - the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey - are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins.

In "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 2," I listed 25 things you must know about your new sub if you want to create a satisfying relationship...