Weaponized Incompetence

ISBN-13: 9783565222742 / Angielski / Miękka / 144 str.

Nora Blake

Opis

"You're just better at it than me." It sounds like a compliment, but it's often a trap. Psychologist Nora Blake explores the phenomenon of "Weaponized Incompetence"-pretending to be bad at a simple task so that someone else will do it for you.Blake analyzes this behavior in marriages (the husband who "ruins" the laundry so he's never asked again) and offices (the coworker who "can't figure out" the spreadsheet). She argues that this isn't just laziness; it is a manipulative strategy to avoid responsibility and emotional labor, forcing the other person into a parent/manager role.The book offers strategies to call out this behavior without starting a fight. Blake teaches the "Minimum Standard of Care" concept and how to stop "gatekeeping" tasks (fixing them after the partner does them poorly), which only reinforces the cycle. A guide to re-establishing equity and respect.

They aren't bad at laundry; they are smart at getting out of it. How to spot strategic helplessness and stop doing everything yourself.

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