A Dom/sub relationship doesn't just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to "fit" one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training.

It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge.

"Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you...

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship - the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey - are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins.

In "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 2," I listed 25 things you must know about your new sub if you want to create a satisfying relationship...

Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don't know how to get started?

The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn't dirty. There's nothing shameful or wrong about it.

Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that's completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it's...