Can't find a good man? On the bachelorette scale, you rank highly desirable-smart, attractive, funny, and sociable. You're an all-around great catch, yet can't comprehend why you're as single as a one dollar bill. The answer could begin with that seemingly innocent list you've compiled as a result of relationship disappointments. You may know it as your "Ideal Man" list, which begins with a few non-negotiables such as rich, fine, successful and . . . " This list, originally intended to help you steer clear of "Mr. Wrong," has likely become your ball and chain, retarding your love life and...