After too many "how to land a spouse" guides, it's time to change the narrative on what it means to be a single woman in the twenty-first century.

Being single sucks Well, that's what everyone tells me, anyway. In pretty much every culture, single women over the age of twenty-nine are seen as lonely, miserable, undesirable, and cat-crazy. Family members, friends, heck, even perfect strangers ask, "When are you going to get married?" And if one more person tells me about their third cousin twice removed who met the love of their life online, I'm going to take out my weave and...