Lynn Fredrick: I once believed I deserved to be hurt. I thought abuse was normal, too. I thought taking the blame for everything and everyone was normal too. Consequently, I used sex as medication to make myself feel better. It was the only thing I knew. I was stuck in a childhood belief system that wasn't working in my adult life, yet it dictated my behavior for decades. I was a grown man who sought the Promised Land of freedom from sexual sin, but I was too fearful to cross my own personal Red Sea. Unless I changed my core belief system, nothing would ever change for the better in...