To be adopted can be a good thing. It affects everyone differently. You are always wondering who you are and whether you did something to cause this. You're always looking for answers. Some people can cope with this better than others. The four siblings are actually blood kin. We are all connected by the same DNA. The oldest sibling had the expectation of having an 1intact family and the possibility of having other siblings to interact with. The next child was born out of state and had never been introduced to the original family. She was adopted almost immediately to a family who already had...