Here is the solution to the vacation dilemma which will work even for the many people who can never hope to have their own businesses. Early in life, right out of high school, technical college, or college, spend as much time as it takes finding where your favorite spot to vacation might be and immediately move as close to it as you can. Then, if you can't be self-employed, find work that contains some element of passion for you. You may have to do something less desirable for a while but always keep looking for a better job you love. Do these TWO things and you will never think about a...