This is meant to assist anyone looking to establish a covenant relationship, possibly leading to marriage. This is not just words spoken but a promise made before God and another person. Like the marriage vows, the words spoken are -I promise or I do-. In the American Indian culture they cut the bottom of their arms, -the blood mixing as they do-, and placed them on top of the other person making them their -family-. To whatever -level- of your words spoken can be all the difference