I have seen people who have made a bad decision that has taken control of their lives. They try to undo it, or fight through many years to get back to a somewhat normal life. There is an over abundance of people who never make it, even through much rehab and much professional counseling. There is still something missing to the equation. Oh yes, there are many who are able to climb out of that deep dark hole, but there are way too many who dont. It winds up killing them, quickly or slowly, but never the less they never make it out.

We can all learn from men who have suffered...