Sometimes, with the purest of hearts and the loftiest of intentions, we can do things that turn out to be the least helpful. It is not because we mean to make things more difficult for someone, in fact, the opposite is true, we mean to make things easier for them. The rub is that in some situations making things easier, takes away one of the main things that motivates them to do what they need to do. As humans, we don't tend to make changes because we are comfortable, we tend to make changes because we are uncomfortable, and when someone makes us as comfortable as they can, they allow us to...