One woman with two different lives: Sarah Kate Henecke Alessandra V. Toscanelli. A strangled tale of Domestic Violence, the struggle to survive the darkest moments, & the twisted journey to BEDAZZZLING My Sweetest ALOHA. This is the story behind the blog... Behind the drama... Behind the court cases... It is a paparazzi life & a photogenic smile of woman who struggles to survive the never-ending abuse of a flawed system for Domestic Violence Survivors, the abuse of her abuser, & the twisted obsession of those who refuse to face the truth of Domestic Violence. The cyber-stalker: "Gotta laugh...

My Sweetest Marriage is not always so sweet... My marriage history is a bedazzling mix of over 10+ years of marriage the first time, the promise of never getting married again, 3 years of avoiding relationships, 1/2 year avoiding dating, a twisted engagement, 1 fabulously shockingly quick wedding in Hawai'i, 2 years of marriage to my 2nd husband along with two misguided ideas of divorcing my 2nd husband & 4 months separation to magically be told we weren't actually divorced... Yes. Yes, I do. I really do love him & he really does love me... & if we can avoid the past mistakes, learn to...