Who wants to be a Nice Guy, eternally on the friendship track, forever finishing last? Yet many men choose the Nice Guy life without even realizing it, without really understanding what lurks in the sub-basement of Nice Guy Syndrome. Consider the following examples: * Debbie thinks Bill is kind, considerate, and decent, but after months of dating, she feels no spark, no special tingle, no attraction. "I feel so bad," she says. "I really ought to love him, but I don't, even though I want to" * John has just been dumped again after weeks of bending over backwards to keep the relationship alive....