Even with all I had, I didn't have what I really wanted: a husband. My life had some "haves," but it also had a big "have knot"-I had not yet tied the knot. I was single and saved, but I was definitely not satisfied with my current state. Even though I had the man upstairs, I didn't have my man in the pew next to me. I deeply desired both. Growing up as an African American child, I learned powerful lessons by different mediums. My family urged me to get an education and be independent. My family of faith often said, "Wait on the Lord" and "Jesus is all you need." Society also taught me that...