Is he 'the one'?-the one I want to give my life, my loyalty and all my love?" "Is she 'the one'?-the one who will treasure my visions, train our children, and take on my last name?" God designed everything, including our relationships, to function best with what it's compatible with. Relationships are healthiest when there is compatibility where it matters most. Often times in our love life, we allow "falling in love" to rob us of sound judgment and traditions to excuse us of the responsibility of choosing a life partner wisely. Marriage is one of the greatest investments you'll ever make....