I realised that we all have to face the lost and death of a loved one whether a blood relative or just a plain simple close friend at some point in our entire lives. i ALSO realised for myself this here year after the sudden and unexpected death of my 2 mom who was indeed that in all ways but deed that FOLKS the world over in and out of church BOTH are CLUELESS, TACTLESS, HEARTLESS, COLD and UNFEELING WHEN IT COME TO knowing the rigth and wrong thing to SAY AND DO ALONG WITH NOT SAY AND DO to a grieving person. too many time the COMMENTS folk made to me like GET OVER IT, STOP THE CRYING FOR...