I'm totally cool with him being a father, I don't have to worry about her mother either because if he has her with him when he picks me up he'll let me know ahead of time so I'll no to be on my best behavior when we drop her off. One time her mother was walking out of her parent's house to get her and was talking shit to me calling me the new white whore in his life. I quickly corrected her ass, I told her you might be a whore or allow men to call you that but I'm not one and my parents didn't raise me that way