The mirror has spat societal lies at me throughout a tortured lifetime. My name is Sofia and you'll get to know me as such, but for most of my life I lived as Mike. My family has known me as a gay man since I was in my late teens. Before that I was the shy, often misunderstood boy who was handsome and well-liked. Go back a little further and you'll see a boy who preferred playing house to running around with a football...but none of that really matters. My real story, the one covered in a greasy layer of iniquity and come soaked cash, begins when I finally understand that I'm not really gay....