In this common sense heart-felt book, the author, a self-defined "love blind" dad and education attorney who worked with hundreds of socially challenged students and young adults, shares how heaping unearned abundance with little or no contribution or accountability from his children caused them dire, even fatal, consequences as adults. His revelations are insightful, brutally honest, and instructional to parents who come face to face with their own self-destructive children. A "must" read in this day when children and young adults more and more feel entitled to just about everything.