Abuse of any kind is not to be tolerated if your man or woman has to belittle you, put you down, make you feel less of a person, frighten you, it is abuse and trust love does not hurt; love hurts only when the wrong love is given. I wrote this to wake you up Porcha not to hurt or embarrass you, some things just need to be done; I would rather do this to wake you up to the reality of things going on in your world and others like yours and mine, other than not say a word and watch this man this person you say love you do something as they all say not on purpose where you end up dead .Lord knows...