A house most would love, vehicles others envy, a 401K offering a great start for the family's retirement, real estate investments, a year or two from debt freedom (other than the mortgage), a beautiful wife, three wonderful children, a thriving ministry and a great corporate job-sounds great for a 30-something African-American man in America, right? I thought so too. But then in 2009, the house I built came tumbling down. In a year's time, I went from married to divorced, from gainful employment to the unemployment line, from being on the road to financial freedom to financial ruin, from...