Ladies, can you admit something? You're kind of "intensively interested" (some might call it obsessed) with trying to figure men out. Women like you have spent thousands of hours agonizing about what a guy's thinking, why he said that and why he didn't say this. You've faithfully read Cosmopolitan all these years and you're no closer to figuring men out. Lots of things you'd like to know; why the guy you work with won't ask you out or what's up, why that jerk that hit on you at the bar acts like that, or why your boyfriend won't commit or why your husband doesn't want to talk or... There are...