Most of us are excited to experience new relationships because our minds can see endless possibilities. But when the novelty wears off and we have to begin to work at keeping things fresh, we quickly move from feelings of ecstasy to thoughts like "There has got to be more to this relationship than what I am experiencing." And you are exactly right there is so much more to discover in any relationship when you have the right illumination.

There were hidden treasures in my relationships just waiting to be discovered. I learned this from studying scriptures like 2 Corinthians 4:7 "But we...