You've been in your relationship for a few years. In the beginning it was sexy, passionate and romantic. Now there is so much to take care of, so many people who are demanding time and energy of you that your relationship can feel merely functional and romance can become another chore on your ever expanding to-do list. You may have tried the odd date night but sometimes you're too tired or overwhelmed to even think about organizing it. Maybe, you think, you'll have to wait until the kids gets older, there's more time, or you finally get to go away on a romantic vacation. Hell, any vacation...