WHY GET OVER YOUR EX? I know right now you may be feeling a lot of pain, hurt and disillusionment. I've been there many times myself. And I'm sure you have very valid reasons to feel the way you're feeling. I know I did. I'm also sure that whether you left the relationship or the other person did, you are having some feelings of loss too. I think it's very normal for us to feel these emotions when we separate from someone we were close to, no matter what damage may have been done in and by the relationship. But now it is time to move on, that doesn't necessarily mean forgetting that person....