Being a gentleman or lady is more than cleaning up the cursing, but sounding intelligent without coming off as arrogant. We have our own unique style and personal vernacular. But improving and expanding your vocabulary will make you a better communicator. The ability to paint elaborate pictures in your acquaintance's minds is a sought after trait. Don't go through life living only for today or tomorrow. Find an aim bigger than money. Seek out a purpose, and run hard after it. I find that people that I respect as gentlemen or ladies have something to live for.