Having a safety plan is a necessary tool, if you are planning to leave an abusive relationship. This comprehensive, step-by-step plan will assist you in creating safety in eight areas of your life. It is imperative that you DO NOT take this plan home or leave it lying around for the abuser to find. Should the abuser fine it, all of your planning will be for nothing. Once the abuser knows you are planning to leave, it will be harder for you to leave when you are truly ready. Above all, be safe and strategic.