The level of an individual's engagement in any relationship be it spousal, friendships, business related, social, spiritual, or a myriad of others, is always predicated on the weakest commitment between the interacting individuals. We tend to consider the lowest bar set as the acceptable measure of satisfaction. It's not a good thing or bad thing; it's the way we humans most often respond to our associations. Wouldn't it be nice if we all could wake up each morning to a set of metrics created solely to raise our spirits and the level of the bar we want to achieve? Well, here is the answer....