Healing is a state of burdenlessness. My brother, Michael, wrote this line for Tapestry Of Love: A Brother, A Sister And An Odyssey Through Cancer, after being diagnosed with a recurrence of bone cancer in April, 1992. He had been in remission for twelve years. He died four months later at 34. Michael and I immediately began to write our story together, a matter of life and death to us. Sharing our pain, focusing this through writing, transformed the raw ache of cancer into a journey of love and letting go. For all the sadness, we found a freedom in compassion, in humor. Humor, as Michael...