Feeling overwhelmed with your 'old issues' cropping up the older your children grow? Horrified at hearing your mom's (or dad's) voice coming out of your mouth? Finding yourself getting frustrated with your kids and not understanding why your reaction seems to be over-the-top compared to their behavior? Wonder how other parents seem to know what to do while you're constantly floundering? If you're a parent who was abused as a child, these statements may describe you. Parenting is tough under the best of circumstances. But when the modeling you received was dysfunctional, you're behind before...