What do you do when you've been married to a man for 30 years and he becomes a different person to you? You become afraid for your life but you're having a hard time of letting go, of deciding if you should leave. If you stay you may become a statistic, and/or a victim. "I chose to stay because we had longevity and years of memories, which was probably not a good reason. I didn't think of his name calling, arguing, etc. as abuse and that's how we women trick ourselves. We don't equate the mental/emotional abuse in the same category as the physical abuse. Face it ladies, let's keep it real-we...