Sterling has spent his life continually seeking an answer to the question, "I know who you are but who am I?" He finds the answer, over time and in many different places, by paying attention to people, remembering what he's observed, carefully selecting behaviors like performance, actions, deeds, activities, manners and conduct to emulate. He often chooses not to accept things on blind faith, without comprehension or understanding. "Help me understand" was, and continues to be, his watchword. He tries to avoid the inevitable conflict between adult realism and youthful idealism. He often...