I am writing this true life story because, like most men who have been involved in a divorce, and women as well, have found the whole process of present day marriage, children and divorce one they would not wish upon their worst enemy. Marriage, children and divorce has become a multibillion-dollar industry in America where children are used as a commodity for profit by lawyers, judges and the legal system. The only children that truly benefit are the children of the lawyers and judges. The people of this system do this all under the banner of "In the Best Interest of the Child."