'...I do struggle to think that James will be with someone else (even though he says he won't /cant) Realistically he would be young and would need someone. It is my belief that we have soulmates in life and at some point we are together again. I feel like this would be challenged if life is shared with another (stupid I know) I am also scared that there is nothing after death (which I don't believe but its hard not to think about it)...' Deirdre Kohler '...several times during Sandy's last year of life she told me, "I want you to love again. Being with someone else will not take away from...