Shame on Me....I thought we were friends? Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me Divorce----Ex's----Should we befriend them? I had been told he would always be my friend. I had believed that. If that is so then why do I now feel so differently? What did I do to change things? Nothing, absolutely nothing. Nothing previously...nothing recently....no good reason to be ignored ....except for the fact that I am the ex wife. He changed...he made choices...someday he will know if they were the right choices....perhaps he already does know. Maybe it should be "shame on him" in the...

To be verbally abused sometimes, or should I say over time can be as bad as being physically abused. Sometimes to the victim or victims overwhelming because the outside world can not see what pain you are going through. Sometimes the pain is a daily occurrence with no let up. It grows until it escalates and you believe it is all because of you that this person has done this to you. Sometimes I wished he just would have punched me one good time so people could see he really was a monster, I know I really did not want this to happen but my brain was bloody from his verbal pounding on me daily...