"Every man's fantasy: 30 days of sex " Every woman's dream: 30 days of intimacy " The 30daysexchallenge book is intended to help couples succeed in the challenge by breaking the challenge up into four mini-challenges: spiritual, emotional, sexual, and physical. We use a holistic approach which incorporated with the new 30 days of questions, couples' assessment, and workbook sections, will build intimacy into the relationship and give the couple a fresh passion for each other.