When I got initial physical custody of my two young children, I condensed my best business and technical leadership values and skills into fun practices. I told both, "Kim, Lance, you don't belong to me. You belong to God who loaned you to me for us to mutually-influence each other. I'm so excited God picked me to be your dad." I wanted them to be leaders, so we three shared parent-of-the-day responsibilities. Practicing leadership (and parenting) skills earned for them "creativity dividends" jointly, which were invested in teddy bears, construction toys, and books. I delegated to them (not...