Have you been a victim of abuse? Or, are you unsure how to label your chaotic or rigid family of origin or the dysfunction in your present family system. Many people who have been abused do not know how to identify it or the ill results that they have acquired from it: inabilities to keep satisfying relationships, chronic anxiety and worry, emotional pain, over or under expression of emotions, depression, anger, confusion, addictions, lack of self esteem or the inability to organize one's life. This list could be extended because abuse or neglect impacts every area of our soul (mind, will,...