Everyone seems plagued with anxiety and depression these days. The divorce rate is higher than 50%. Too many children are taking some sort of psychotropic medication by the time they are in middle school. Many married couples are not having regular sex. Why? Because the most important relationships in our lives have become distant. They lack emotional closeness, which means the joy, comfort, companionship, and chemistry once present is gone-replaced by loneliness, sadness, and frustration. Often emotional closeness is lost because of a mismatch in emotional availability. One person in the...