Most of us are trapped in a roller-coaster of 'automatic' thoughts, emotions, and actions. Try as hard as we might, when we see certain people or heart certain things, we get emotional. These intense emotions then trigger us to say certain things out of habit. We also often feel pushed to act a certain way. This all plays out so quickly we feel we really have no control about it. Very much like being on a roller-coaster. Might as well just brace yourself for the...