Have you ever learned something about a boyfriend or girlfriend and thought "Why didn't I already know about this?" Would you have made different choices? If you had known how they are when they get angry would you handle things differently? If you had known how they handle money would you have better expectations for your life together? If you had known that they want their family to be intimately involved in raising their children would you have set up different boundaries at the beginning of the relationship? The only way to know these things early on in a relationship is to talk about...