I feel its time to retreat from the intricate study of the human mind and theoretical case studies. We need nut and bolt insight into why were still single, divorced, or remarried again and again. Both genders of "mainstream society" are being addressed with the intention of creating a balance of spiritual and emotional responsibility between a man and a woman prior to, and after, marriage or divorce.

This writing addresses the subtle ruin of the once sacred family unit. It reveals why hopeful single men or women may never get to the altar. Vast majorities of people persist in holding...