I dedicated myself to writing this guide because I would very much like to spare as many people as I can from what I faced in my life as I dared to follow my dreams. I was bombarded by so many haters as God blessed me with everything I boldly asked for as a child. I dreamed of leaving my family and starting my life somewhere new. I dreamed of love, a husband, and children-a family of my own. I dreamed the American dream of a house, car and career. I dreamed of bigger and better things-a better life than the one that my parents were able to provide. Haters should never ever be allowed to...