"He's in there--the man you want to be--or the man you want him to be. Really, he's in there. And Jim's book is going to help you find him, and live the life you want to live as a man." --John Eldredge, author of Wild at Heart

"Since the beginning of time in the Garden of Eden, man has gone about building a new reality where he is king and controls all things. This flawed intention leads all of us into the dead ends of life where instead of fulfilling the illusion within our mind, we become more frustrated and unfulfilled. Through his excellent book, Jim shows us that the answer is not...

"He's in there--the man you want to be--or the man you want him to be. Really, he's in there. And Jim's book is going to help you find him, and live the life you want to live as a man." --John Eldredge, author of Wild at Heart

"Since the beginning of time in the Garden of Eden, man has gone about building a new reality where he is king and controls all things. This flawed intention leads all of us into the dead ends of life where instead of fulfilling the illusion within our mind, we become more frustrated and unfulfilled. Through his excellent book, Jim shows us that the answer is not...

Do you feel like you are a bystander watching your life unfold without being involved or engaged?

Have you ever over thought something to the point you didn't do it?

Have you found yourself dwelling on how you should have responded more assertively than you did in a given situation?

Are you responding with anger when you don't have the answer to something asked of you?

Do you find it easier to do something else rather than what you should be doing?

What you have just discovered is the problem of passivity, a lack of engagement in your life. Passivity has been with men since...