Carter offers understanding inspiration and a concrete plan of action for any woman, man, or couple who is ready to tackle the eight most destructive demons that make people run from loving relationships.

Before "Ally McBeal" there was "What Smart Women Know, " a straightforward and honest guide from women who have learned the hard way how to be smart about men. This national bestseller is geared for women from all walks of life.

Perhaps "love" itself will always be a mystery. Why a relationship works or doesn't work, however, is not a total mystery. The nine essential rules offered here are easily understood, and easily put into daily practice.