The coach gathered his players closer for a critical final-seconds huddle. 'Okay, Adams, you head down the field for a reception and, Parker, you cross to the right for a hand-off. Russell, to win this game you or one of these guys has to get that ball in the endzone. Now, go make it happen ' The players looked confused. Why didn't the coach call a real play? One that called them to work together as one cohesive team?The coach's players will lose the game if they act as individuals. A marriage will fail if both people involved don't bring their different backgrounds, personalities and...