RJ Thesman is a Certified Christian Life Coach who developed the SOS program (Starting Over Single) for GateWay of Hope, a nonprofit organization that serves women in the Kansas City Metro area. Through the SOS program, women who applied these 19 Tips discovered new hope and direction. Thesman is an author, a mom and a lover of blueberries and cats - not necessarily in that order. She loves working with women, to help them Start Over Single.