Steven Stosny, Ph.D., has treated more than 6,000 people through CompassionPower, the organization he founded and has directed for more than 21 years. He is the author of "Living & Loving after Betrayal, Love without Hurt: Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One", and, with Pat Love, "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking about It." His textbook, "Treating Attachment Abuse: A Compassionate Approach", " "set a new standard for understanding and treating family abuse and was a Behavioral Science Book Selection. His blog "Psychology