Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.D., is a practicing psychologist, therapist, workshop leader and author. She has written many books, including "Zen Miracles, Why Men Leave" and "Journey Through Illness and Beyond, " winner of the NABE Award for Best Book of the Year in the Category of Health. She is also the relationship expert on iVillage.com and runs workshops nationally on all aspects of psychology, Zen and relationships. Dr. Shoshanna lives in the New York area. Visit the author online at www.BrendaShoshanna.com.