"This is a valuable book. It makes the point that if one or both your parents were to any degree immature and self-serving, or their parenting was deficient and harmful in some way through any other form of 'personality disorder', you have a choice: to see this as an obstacle (and risk getting stuck) or see it as an opportunity (and start to grow). It gives you the chance to transcend victimhood and use your painful experiences as the fuel for a kind of pilgrimage of personal and spiritual development. Then the authors tell you how to go about it. I recommend it." Larry Culliford, author of 'L...